Before you have it all figured out.

Before you know what the heck you’re doing.

Before you feel like it’s safe to reach out.

Ask. Seek. be curious.

We can hold on to long-held beliefs and identities, but we don’t have to.

So many of us are caught in a cycle of always being ON, always efforting, always doing things that require that kind of external effort, that we forget to release. We’re living in this short inhale.

When’s the last time you thought about yourself as someone to love?

The idea that you must earn or complete or somehow deserve your full humanity is toxic. And not only is it holding you back, and it actually erodes and undermines all your hard work, all your efforts. It’s just another unwinnable game. 

The problems feel heavy, and the solutions aren’t obvious. But let’s take another look.